The Total Transformation Can Change Your Child's Behavior
Total Transformation: A Parenting Expert's Review
by Laura Ramirez
Award-winning author of two parenting books and thousands of articles on raising children
Publisher of Family Matters Parenting Magazine
If you have a child who talks back, fights constantly with siblings and is disrespectful, or worse yet, a teen who is defiant, unremorseful, using drugs and resorting to criminal behavior, you may have seen or heard the commercials on The Total Transformation Program and wondered if it works.
The answer is yes, and let me tell you why: it is different from any other programs or therapies you may have tried in the past. In fact, I believe it is the best, most effective program for dealing with troubled kids or kids who are headed in the wrong direction.
The Total Transformation was developed by therapist, James Lehman, who was once a troubled young man himself. He understands how angry kids work from the inside out and what they need to turn their lives around, as he did so successfully many years ago.
Now a successful and well-respected therapist, Lehman uses the techniques in his office to teach parents the simple steps that will turn around their kids' behavior. James Lehman's firm, but caring techniques have saved the lives of countless kids and restored the sanity of twice as many parents.
The Total Transformation Program is effective for kids who show a spectrum of behaviors. If your child has just started to talk back and act defiant, there are techniques that you can use to stop this behavior quickly. And let's face it: bad behavior doesn't get better on its own, in fact, it only worsens with time. This is because patterns of behavior get habituated in the brain. You've heard the saying: what fires together wires together. Brain scientists know that behavior gets habituated over time.
This happens to those who are doing the behaviors and those impressionable young brothers and sisters who are witnessing these behaviors every day. This is another reason, you want to help a defiant kid change his or her behavior. After all, you don't want younger kids to start mimicking defiant behaviors or your home will become a living nightmare.
Look, I know how tough it is to deal with problem behaviors in the home. Although I'm fortunate to have good relationships with my teenage boys, I have friends who turn to me for advice on this very subject. They literally walk on egg shells in their own homes, terrified that they are going to set off their kids. You and I both know that this is no way to live.
You may not be surprised that these parents are smart and well-educated, but mystified by the behavior of their kids. These are parent's who have exhausted all their resources and don't know what to do. Before I recommend the Total Transformation Program, I tell them: "It's not your fault that your kids act this way, but it is your responsibility to do something about it. Because if you don't, then, one day, the authorities will have to."
The Total Transformation is an effective solution for parents of kids who show one or more of the following behaviors:
- always picking fights
- lies or lies about lying
- argues about everything
- indifferent to privileges being taken away
- shows criminal tendencies
- uses drugs or alcohol
- threatens siblings, peers or parents with violence
Obviously, the program works for a spectrum of behaviors: from kids who are just beginning to act disrespectfully, to kids with ADD or ADHD to kids who have Oppositional Defiant Disorder or Conduct Disorder to those who are doing drugs and engaging in criminal behavior. Of course, the earlier you catch these behaviors, the quicker you can stop the process, but you can still use these techniques to help a very troubled kid.
Understand though that this is a process. Although some of the techniques will work right away, other behaviors take time to change. Make a commitment to the process. Whatever you do, don't give up on your kids.
If you are at your wit's end or worried about the turn your child's behavior seems to be taking, take action now and get the Total Transformation. Although it is offered on a free 30-day trial basis, it is so full of vital information and parenting techniques that you will want to keep it as a resource and who knows, maybe one day, you'll even pass it on to your grownup kids.
What You Get with The Total Transformation:
- 7 CDs
- Here's a list of what you'll learn on the first CD, which is called, Why Does My Child Act This Way?
- Your child's behavior is not your fault
- 16 causes of poor behavior and how they hurt your family
- Identify the root causes of your child's behavior
- 116-Page Workbook with tests for each section so you can make sure you know how to use what you've learned
- DVD of a Parent Workshop led by James Lehman
- Jumpstart DVD with testimonials
Still skeptical? The bottom line is that you must do what you can to help your child. Otherwise, you will end up regretting it later.
Restore peace and happiness to your home. Don't give up on a troubled child: instead, give him the boundaries and guidance he desperately needs.
Get your copy of the Total Transformation Program
Click on the link above or call toll free 1-866-798-8629 to place your order.
Important Tip: When you get the program, listen to all the CDs and start using the techniques with your child right away. Keep the program, so you can refer to it as needed. If you have any questions, make sure to call the support line for help.
Note: I am an affiliate of Legacy Publishing because I believe in their product. Before I wrote this review, I went through their program in its entirety and tried out its techniques. This is an inexpensive, effective and humane way to help your child get back on track with resorting to expensive therapy or boot camp.