My wife believes that our 17 year old daughter does not need a curfew. She got her drivers license in May and has since, in my opinion been running wild. She comes home whenever and at times doesn't come home at all. When I question this my wife tells me she's enjoying her summer, you don't understand anything about teenagers. My wife also says that while she would prefer that our daughter not drink, that we have to be realistic and accept that she is going to drink which I believe is totally unacceptable. If I check her Twitter page or look in her car I'm told that I'm stalking her life. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.