Inappropriate comments from a father?

by Dianne
(UK)

Is is appropriate for a father to tell his 14 year old daughter that she has the sexiest arse ever? Or to tell her that her arse looks f***king hot in those pants.


I've been with him for a year now and have heard these comments on several occasions. They make me feel sick when said. I'm not jealous I find it inappropriate. He thinks it's building her confidence. I think he's sending the wrong message.

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Oct 13, 2015
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Inappropriate NEW
by: Pasty Hight

It won't going to bring any failure to them but if they are not caring about anything which has been going around them, then there might be trouble for them. So, one might need to consider things to their level. assignment help

Jul 07, 2012
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fathers innapropiate comments
by: Anonymous

Run for the hills as fast and far as you can. Feel sorry for that girl.

Dec 22, 2011
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Child molester
by: Anonymous

He molested her or is trying, I'd about guarantee it.

Jun 03, 2010
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Emotional Incest
by: Laura Ramirez

Your boyfriend's comments are a form of emotional incest. Instead of supporting his daughter's transformation into a woman by making her feel good about who she is, he is objectifying her. It is definitely inappropriate and I would tell him so. When you witness an adult treating a child like this, it is up to you to say something to try to put a stop to it.

I cannot respond to every question posted on my site, but this one really disturbed me.

Tell your boyfriend that it is wrong for him to objectify his daughter. If he thinks he's doing her a favor, tell him that there are plenty of men in the world who will objectify her and make comments about her body parts. His job is not to be one of them, but to be her father. If you need further help with this, read about my parenting coach service.

Hope this helps.

May 31, 2010
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Inappropriate comments to Teen
by: Thunter

Extremely inappropriate! Would he like it if other guys talked to his 14 year old daughter like that?

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