Parenting a Defiant, Angry Child by: Laura Ramirez
You're right to be concerned about your son. At age seven, he seems to be showing the signs of oppositional defiant disorder which only worsens with time. What you need to do is take immediate action, because as your son grows older and stronger, his tantrums and rages will become more frightening.
At this point you have two choices: counseling or a behavioral program that you can use at home. I've heard great things about this program from a number of my subscribers and will be reviewing it shortly. It's available on a 30-day trial, so you can get it at no risk to determine if you think you could use it to help your son.
Whatever you decide to do, get help because this kind of behavior does not improve on its own.