how can a mother possibly know her child is being sexually abused by her husband when she is working hard to pay the bills and there is no sign of the abuse?

by j. davis
(ark)

My husband came from a completely incestuous family where his sister was in fact his mother and he had a daughter by his niece. His father had been in the army and only discovered the problems much later. His parents did not approve of incest and were not aware of the extent of the incest of their seven children. Why would anyone expect this incest to be so prevalent? I grew up in a household where there were three of us, but there was no incest. How can someone who loves and trusts their husband possibly think such evil would exist. I was taught that thinking evil of someone was wrong and spiteful! there was no information or advice on incest at that time. Now things are thankfully changing and people are becoming aware of what has happened in the past and are beginning to deal with the problem!


I am quite open about some of the problems I see, but I see so many people covering up incest and anyone who notices what is happening is vilified and called insane!

What a wicked world of hypocrites! One of the most famous women in England was head of a paedophile ring and was hailed as a wonderful woman! How can anyone really know what goes on and how on earth can this really be stopped?

An inquiry into incest and child abuse is like walking into a minefield!

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May 23, 2012
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Yes. Confronting incest is a minefield. You will get hurt.
by: Erik

I come from an incestuous family. My father was a bank president and well respected in the community. We were Catholic. We always had to put on the happy face at church and pretend like life was great. And after church life would return to the hell that it was. My mother was not getting love from my dad so she turned to me. I was always told to never tell my father what we were doing. My mother was so lonely and depressed I just wanted to make her feel better. I am now 46 years old. I confronted her six months ago and said there is a curse on our family the abuse needs to stop now. She told me I was the one abusing her and shame on me. My mother has poisoned everyone around her towards me. She is a master manipulator and liar. I was an accomplice in her wickedness for many years but now refuse to participate. She does not want to stop. I read in a study that the fabric of America is woven with incest and the reason it is not brought to light is it would destroy our nation. It is like masturbation. You keep it private. Most people do it but talking about it is evil.

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