don't know how to handle this

by Kim

I'm dealing with a unique situation. In August I met a woman (I'm also a woman) and we began seeing each other. A month into the relationship she tells me that a month prior to us meeting she was raped. She also told me that she was horribly sexually and physically abused by her father until she was 16 when she went into the social services system. She is having severe flashbacks, anxiety, and hasn't slept in weeks. This past weekend she broke up with me... :-( I know we have only been dating for a couple months, but I really care for her and want to be with her. She broke up with me and said that she wasn't sure if it was just bad timing for her or if it was more than that, but that she just wasn't feeling right about things and needs time and can't be in a relationship with me at this time. She did say that she knows I care and that she cares for me and that she wants me in her life. I don't know what to do...I've been very patient with her and we barely have done anything physically, and we have not had sex.I do not want to lose her...I haven't heard from her or seen her since Saturday. If you have any advice I'd appreciate it. Thanks, Kimberly

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