divorce and my 10 year old
we've recently divorced and my 10 year old seems to hate me. She doesn't want to come see me and when she does she won't talk to me. Her mom has told her some very nasty things about me and I refuse to lower myself to her level. She cries and throws fits and says she doesn't have to go with me. I've let her get away with it for the past year and i now see that it has only made things worse by allowing her to TELL me what she will or won't do. What can I do to fix this problem?