Child Still Sleeping with Mother
My friend has a unusual relationship with her son, now 5 yrs old. The child is still sleeping with the mother even on nights when the father sleeps in another room. She has a condtion which I do not know the proper name for but it means she has fallen in love with her kid. I know this is common because she has said as much and the woman next door to us told me she had it with both her boys.
Now, recently she had been very blunt about keeping her son away from me. I don't know where this is coming from. I was the child's nanny for 3 months and treat him especially well. She won't let anyone near him for long and she gets so crazy and jealous over it she wheels him back in. She can only play with her and her crazy husband who is a few wheels short of a wagon.
Anyway, why I am writing. The other day the little boy, Declan, was outside on his scooter... I was sitting there as was his mother... suddenly this pretty woman about 35 or 40 blonde ponytail walks by... Declan stops everything and looks at her. Than turns to his mother with his eyes opened wide - like in delight. Which unnerved me. The mother Nancy, looks at the woman than back at her son and states, "Declan, she's too old for you." NOw I don't know about anyone else reading this but for me that was SPOOKY. CREEPY. I know the mother showers and walks into the bedroom where her son is watching and tv. I don't know what she does but I am guessing she changing into her cloths. Sometimes, the boy go into the bathroom with her too. This doesn't seem right to me and I am concerned he is developing sexually far faster than normal because of this unnatural closeness between his mother and him.She told me directly her and her husband are no long intimate. This is sick to me.
What can I do?? Her and her husband treat me like a stranger anymore. I've known the husband and lived with him for 20 yrs. His wife Nancy, I know about 7 yrs but I have never experienced anything like this from them. They want me out they have no loyalty to me for all I did for them. They changed 180 degrees in four months the husband even commented on my buying Declan a toy (3.00 toy) "Nance, I don't know if I like the idea of STRaNGERS from across the street buying him presents." IS he crazy or what? Can you tell me what to do? I know they both have problems but can't someone have them take psychological testing or something? I'm scared for the kid and myself. Who are these people anymore? PLEASE ANSWER ASAP!