Purchase Total Transformation in New Zealand by: Laura Ramirez
For the parent who commented and wants to purchase Total Transformation from New Zealand, the way to do it is to call 866-798-8629. If you call you can place an order and have The Total Transformation shipped to you. Hope this helps.
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New zealand purchase of Total Trasformation Kit by: Anonymous
I live in New Zealand and would love to get the Total Transformation by Lehman, but how do I?
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Aggressive Child and Discipline by: Laura Ramirez
Your child gets so immersed in what he's doing that he has difficulty transitioning when the outside world requires that he make a shift. He is hypersensitive to these shifts and so it's important that you learn how to work with him, so he can start making transitions without acting out.
What you describe is actually an autism of sorts, but must be dealt with because we all must learn how to respond to the outside world and its demands even though we'd much prefer to stay engaged in what we're doing. Since this is process and not something I can describe easily in a short post, you may want to take a look at my parenting coaching program.
I understand the process from the inside out because my youngest son once had the same difficulties that your five-year old is having.
Although your husband reacted to your five-year old out of fatigue and frustration, his actions revealed an important difference in your philosophies about raising children. I support your point of view (and recommend that your husband read my parenting book if he has not, particularly the sections on respect and responsive parenting). This divide between moms and dads is fairly common: men tend to believe that it's okay to be respected out of fear, while women tend to believe that respect should be earned through love and caring.
I think this gives us a great opportunity to discuss what happens in a household when parents have different ideas about discipline and how to come together to resolve these differences so that we can present a united front to our children.
Although I have my own ideas about how such conflicts can be resolved, I'd like to open this up to comments from other readers to start a dialogue about this very important issue.
