Although I could give you a recommendation for a boot camp for teens, in your words, I sensed a willingness to try one more thing before you resort to something so drastic.
You and your husband are good parents because you are willing to fight for your son even when he's not willing to fight for himself.
There are effective alternatives to teen boot camp. Although you may have tried behavioral modification techniques in the past, if you haven't tried this particular behavioral program, I highly recommend you do.
The reason why? It works. It's different from the other programs out there and most important, it has a track record of success. Over 150,000 parents have used it successfully and some of those parents are my subscribers and clients.
The program was developed by a therapist who has transformed the lives of countless teenagers with his behavioral techniques. These are simple techniques that you can learn at home and apply immediately. The program is available on a trial basis.
I could tell you more, but it's better for you to click on boot camp alternative where you can read all about it.
Thanks for fighting for your son. Please write back after you've gone through the program and tell us how things are going. Good luck.