biological mom is telling children to not like me

by Kate

Im in a tight spot. I am currently dating my boyfriend who has a three year old son and six year old daughter. his ex wife has told her children to be mean to me and that they should not like me. I have been seeing the children for 4 months now, and every time we hang out they seem to be having a good time and generally like me.

the three year old tonight told his dad he doesnt like me when my name was brought up. when he asked the son why, he said because his mom told him not to like me.

I dont know what to do in this situation. My boyfriends daughter told her dad that she likes me alot and that she has to keep it a secret from her mom. does anyone have any suggestions on how to make this situation better?

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