Asshole opportunist real estate agent

by Matthew N
(Seattle Wa. USA)

Me ex wife chose to fall in love with the real estate agent we had consulted to help us sell our house. This precipitated an unnecessarily complicated and nasty divorce, one that should have been amicable.

I was so confused and bewildered about it all, and preoccupied on the wrong thoughts, that I didn't exactly perform well in terms of pursuing the correct legal steps to defend myself.

I foolishly allowed my ex to manipulate my trust further, verbally promising me things that
I failed to get in writing, naturally reneging on all of it, leaving me with a paltry visitation schedule and a hefty monthly child support payment.

Throughout the months following, at my ex's coaxing, this salesman ended up moving in and living in my old place, in my old home (that never sold), and into a much more present and influential place in my own
son's life than me.

I have never liked this man, and have been racked by anxiety and frustration by this continuing situation. My son's discomfort about it seems to be increasing, and he is coming out with more complaints about it.

Recently, he told me that this man showed him a picture on his computer of a little boy
with his naked peter out, peeing in a cereal bowl. My son said his mother (my ex) doesn't know about it.This bothers me.

What do you say about it?

Matt
Seattle Wash.