20-year old Daughter trouble
My 20-year old daughter blows up if I mention anything about her boyfriend. They have been together for 4 years and he is a nice kid. They only see each other about once per week and sometimes that one day is during the week for yogurt. He lives close by and honestly I don't don't know why they don't go out more.
Anyway, she was telling my youngest son (15) about his recent break-up. She was annoyed that he was still willing and trying to talk things over with the girl he broke up with. Eventually, I chimed in and told her my son needs to work this out with the girl and if he chose to get back with her that is his own choice. He is young and learning how to deal and act in relationships. She is so determined that he should not even speak with this girl and told him once a break up occurs there should be no further communication.
I told her so if you and your BF break-up you will not speak with him from that point? BOOM! She stands up and starts crying yelling why do I have mention his name as an example and that I always do that. I told her why is it that I cannot mention his name in any capacity? I like him and have NEVER brought up his name once in a negative way. I was shocked at her sensitivity over this.
One day later she is still mad. I know she has been raised as a spoiled girl by my wife and myself, but this is ridiculous.